What to look for in a great coach or counsellor

Counselling and coaching are different, 

however, there are some shared abilities and qualities.

What to look for in a great coach

Those who demonstrate mastery and deep expertise – typically with well

over 10 years of successfully improving the performance of hundreds of 

clients.

Expert level coaches have such a high level of experience that they can identify and solve problems intuitively, with little explicit analysis or planning. They see underlying patterns effortlessly and they apply appropriate solutions, even to complex and unique situations, in such a way that they generate consistently superior performance. Lord and Hall (2005) note that expert performance is marked by the ability to see and interpret underlying principles instead of relying on heuristics or surface features, which is what most competent coaches do.  

Great coaches: 

·        Can really get a client to reflect.

·        Inspire people to want to and believe they can change.

·        Take clients to higher levels.

·        Frequently get results.

·        Have a passion for helping people.

·        Can help people learn the necessary new mindsets and behaviours 

to adapt to their changing environment. 


Great coaches are not focused primarily upon techniques (what to do) – 

but is always looking at what the person is trying to achieve, and in that

context how to be most helpful to this client's journey. Underlying all this must  be an ability to build a deep trusting relationship which needs the 

coach to  focus on (how to be).  


The ‘what to do’ is well defined by Myles Downey’s

GROW process and the ‘how to be’ is expertly illustrated by Nancy Kline’s

Thinking Environment. 

What to look for in a great counsellor

Long term experience and knowledge applied well are the most important components in the effectiveness of counselling.

Great counselling is as much about who counsellors are and how they behave in a client session as it is about what they do. Long term experience and knowledge applied well are the most important components of their effectiveness.

A great counsellor demonstrates several personal skills highlighted in the slide below and above all achieves results by:

  • Inspiring clients to want to change, set goals and gain hope.

  • Helping clients to reflect honestly.

  • Helping clients to develop new ways of thinking and behaviours.

  • Offering interpretations of the drivers of client symptoms.

  • Helping clients achieve a step change in the quality of their life.

Great counselling is as much about who counsellors are and how they behave in a client session as it is about what they do.